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Friday, September 12, 2014

Do You Love Them?

Dont trust what someone says about another person unless you know it to be true and even then you have no room to be slamming on others. People lie or they misunderstand a person or they go along with the gossip. Perhaps we should grow up and look at our own imperfections and stop looking at the wrongs or assumed wrongs of others.


Some people get judged unfairly because their family is poor or has a criminal amongst one of them. Some people get judged because the victim is thought to be lacking in knowledge or has a bad past.


Who cares if a person was a bad person who did this or that. Give a person another chance without downing on them. That doesn't mean you have to trust them or let them hurt eyou, it just means that you are not a gossip partaker that seems to forget your own sins and mistakes.


This year I have met and gotten to know a lot of new people in my life and it bothers me how many of them have been so wronged and misunderstood just because they are different or whatever.


So get off your butt and love people UNCONDITIONALLY.


It isn't always easy and it doesn't mean you have to let them take advantage of you. It just means that you can treat them well WITHOUT the conditions. You know what I mean by conditions. Many people will only be nice to another person if the person has done this or that perceived good thing. Who cares what they have or have not done! They are still humans with one life to live just like you.


To love, truly love, others we don't tack on exceptions and rules. To love others is to see into their heart seeing the good in there that God gifted them with. To truly love others does not mean we have to be harmed by them or hang out around them. It just means that you can be adult enough to treat all people with respect without the conditions, just like Jesus did/does.