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Friday, September 05, 2014

Grieving with a Griever.

Well Dad was buried one week ago today. Its all been a blur. I dont even remember much of what I've been doing since his death. I just survive doing the chores and living going along. Some friends have helped bring me out of my grieving shell as we go do something.


Just simple things like looking for cicada shells and sticking them to ourselves to freak people out helps boost the mood. Playing freeze tag in the water was fun. But many days Im just going about my day in a blur.


Grieving takes time.


I dont want anyone dying or suffering but since it happens to all of us it is nice to not have to be alone in the grieving. One of my friends lost his mother a week before my Dad died. So we are both going through the same type of grieving at the same time. It is a shared pain that creates bonds.


Always love your parents. Never dump on them even if they drive ya nutty. Love them.